Self-Love Teachings are a Trap
Such teachings encourage the all-encompassing feminine energy to narrow its focus to only its own self and to validate the withholding of nourishment from those who she would receive nourishment from. As such, she makes herself isolated, a closed system, cut off from symbiotic nourishment.
The female energy is NOT me - me - me.
This is faux-feminine. A weaving of disruptive sorcery.
Now, it is certainly true that the quality of feminine consciousness is the determining factor that shapes the world around her. But women are being guided confuse self-indulgence with refining the nobility of their character.